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fulfilling + connected sexual
Intimacy + relationships

…without the time & expense of ineffective Therapy or Coaching.

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If you’ve dealing with sexual pain, anxiety or guilt…

What would it feel like to stop avoiding sex and start wanting it?

…without the time & expense of ineffective Sex Therapy or Coaching.

Do you ever count

How many days it's been since you've had sex?

You tell yourself, “It’s been too long, I better do it” or “If I don’t, my partner will leave me…” and end up having sex anyway.

Or you’re avoiding sex altogether.

And when your partner kisses you, instead of melting in, you cringe. 

It’s so uncomfortable hearing about friends’ sex lives when yours feels like a “dirty secret.”

You feel like an outsider.

You hate that you feel “broken.”

NEWS FLASH: It’s not you that’s broken. It’s the system – poor sexual health education & a sex-negative culture has taught you to link sex with fear or shame.

Sex shouldn’t feel like an obligation or a chore.

If it does, you owe yourself the chance to heal.

So where do you turn?

How do you start wanting sex
after avoiding it for so long?

Maybe...

What you’ve tried in the past hasn’t worked.

1.

You've tried it on your own. You've read books, taken intimacy workshops, & had endless conversations about it. It’s left you feeling stuck in the same cycle without a road map out.

2.

You've tried talking to friends, but they don't truly understand. It’s a lonely path – one that’s hijacked by a guilt-shame spiral. So you avoid it all together.

3.

You've even tried working with Doctors or Couple's Therapists. Their dismissive advice – "Have you tried lube? A new sex toy? Try relaxing more” – makes you feel like it’s your fault. You've paid thousands (even tens of thousands) a year with nothing but "treatment plans" you don't have time to do.

How often do you squirm inside

when you even think about sex?

You tell yourself, “It’s been too long, I better do it” or “If I don’t, my partner will leave me…” and end up having sex anyway.

Or you’re avoiding sex altogether.

And when your partner kisses you, instead of melting in, you cringe. 

It’s so uncomfortable hearing about friends’ sex lives when yours feels like a “dirty secret.”

You feel like an outsider.

You hate that you feel “broken.”

NEWS FLASH: It’s not you that’s broken. It’s the system – poor sexual health education & a sex-negative culture has taught you to link sex with fear or shame.

Sex shouldn’t feel like an obligation or a chore.

If it does, you owe yourself the chance to heal.

So where do you turn?

How do you start wanting sex
after avoiding it for so long?

Maybe...

What you’ve tried in the past hasn’t worked.

You've tried it on your own.

You've read books, taken intimacy workshops, & had endless conversations about it. It’s left you feeling stuck in the same cycle without a road map out.

You've tried talking to friends.

But they don't truly understand. It’s a lonely path – one that’s hijacked by a guilt-shame spiral. So you avoid it all together.

You've even tried working with Doctors or Couple's Therapists.

Their dismissive advice – "Have you tried lube? A new sex toy? Try relaxing more” – makes you feel like it’s your fault. You've paid thousands (even tens of thousands) a year with nothing but "treatment plans" you forget to do.

I KNOW HOW PAINFUL AND FRUSTRATING IT CAN BE

Because I’ve been where you are now.

I had a fear-based sex education and when I broke free from that brainwashing, sex was liberating.

But my happiness was cut short when I started experiencing pain during intercourse... leading to a desire drier than the Sahara Desert. I stopped connecting & started avoiding sex altogether.

I didn’t know what to do… and there was no information out there to help.

I KNOW HOW PAINFUL AND FRUSTRATING IT CAN BE

Because I’ve been where you are now.

I had a fear-based sex education and when I broke free from that brainwashing, sex was liberating.

But my happiness was cut short when I started experiencing pain during intercourse... leading to a desire drier than the Sahara Desert. I stop connecting & started avoiding sex altogether.

I didn’t know what to do… and there was no information out there to help.

I SPENT A DECADE OF MY LIFE looking for an answer...

I went to doctor after doctor, but kept getting blown off with the same condescending reply: “It’s all in your head.” 

Not to mention the layer of shame that I was a Marriage & Family Therapist and SEX THERAPIST! It felt like my “dirty secret.”

And as time went on, I started to feel like there was something seriously wrong with me. 

It annihilated my self-esteem. I tolerated toxic relationships because I didn’t think I could do any better.

SPENT A DECADE OF MY LIFE

looking for an answer.

I went to doctor after doctor, but kept getting blown off with the same condescending advice: “It’s all in your head.” 

Not to mention the layer of shame that I was a Marriage & Family Therapist and SEX THERAPIST! It felt like my “dirty secret.”

And as time went on, I started to feel like there was something seriously wrong with me. 

It annihilated my self-esteem. I tolerated toxic relationships because I didn’t think I could do any better.

But I wasn't broken.

And neither are you.

I realized that I had to create the solution to reclaiming sexuality. I drew from other areas of health, psychology and trauma-informed care. I devoured clinical research to find the most effective solutions to similar issues.  Finally, I built the solution & process that transformed my life.

Today, I initiate sex more easily, connect deeper with my partner, and communicate without feeling like a disappointment. I have sex because I want to, not out of guilt or obligation

I’ve been where you are now. And I came out the other side to a life filled with satisfying sex & easy connection.

I’m here to help you get there, too.

But I wasn't broken.

And neither are you.

I realized that I had to create the solution to reclaiming sexuality. I drew from other areas of health, psychology and trauma-informed care. I devoured clinical research to find the most effective solutions to similar issues.  Finally, I built the solution & process that transformed my life.

Today, I initiate sex more easily, connect deeper with my partner, and communicate without feeling like a disappointment. I have sex because I want to, not out of guilt or obligation

I’ve been where you are now. And I came out the other side to a life filled with satisfying sex & easy connection.

I’m here to help you get there, too.

Imagine what it would feel like

to want sex instead of avoiding it...

to want sex

instead of avoiding it...

How would your life be different if

sex was satisfying and comfortable?

If you felt excited to connect and be intimate?

And guilt-free saying NO when you aren’t feeling it?

No matter how long you’ve struggled with sexual pain, anxiety, or avoidance.

Imagine going on a date without stressing about the possibility of sex later.

Or initiating sex with your partner because you’re actually in the mood—and you know it will feel good.

And feeling empowered to say what you want (even if it’s not sex).

HOW WILL YOUR LIFE BE DIFFERENT WHEN

you can enjoy a satisfying sex life without guilt, anxiety, or Disappointment?

You’ve been struggling long enough.

You know you need to see a Specialist who’s trained in these specific issues. But finding someone you can trust who truly understands is a challenge. 

Fitting weekly appointments into your already packed schedule feels impossible.

And you know it could take months (or years!) of “traditional treatment” before you finally have the results you’re working toward. 

That’s why you need NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching™ 

So you can unlock the real reasons you avoid sex.

It’s time to build the amazing sex life you deserve… without the expense and time of traditional Sex Therapy.

You’ve been struggling long enough.

You know you need to see a Specialist who’s trained in these specific issues. But finding someone you can trust who truly understands is a challenge. 

Fitting weekly appointments into your already packed schedule feels impossible.

And you know it could take months (or years!) of “traditional treatment” before you finally have the results you’re working toward. 

That’s why you need NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching™ 

So you can unlock the real reasons you avoid sex.

It’s time to build the amazing sex life you deserve… without the expense and time of traditional Sex Therapy.

“I experienced pretty immediate relief, but it just kept getting better.”

I used to feel like sex was an uncomfortable duty. But it became something I looked forward to, especially knowing it wouldn't hurt or we wouldn't need to make a ton of adjustments that take you out of the enjoyment."

- H.J.

“I experienced pretty immediate relief, but it just kept getting better.”

I used to feel like sex was an uncomfortable duty. But it became something I looked forward to, especially knowing it wouldn't hurt or we wouldn't need to make a ton of adjustments that take you out of the enjoyment."

- H.J.

SOUNDS AMAZING, RIGHT?

Introducing...

Wanting to Want

A Hybrid Coaching Program to Overcome Sexual Avoidance & Unlock a Satisfying Sex Life

SOUNDS AMAZING, RIGHT?

Introducing...

"Wanting to Want"

An 8 Week Hybrid Coaching Program to Overcome Sexual Avoidance & Unlock a Satisfying Sex Life

let’s GET DOWN TO BRASS TACKS

What Are My Options?

SELF-STUDY

  • Flexible Learning: Perfect for a busy life. Learn at your own pace, on your own schedule.

  • Total Control: You decide when and how to engage with the lessons.

EDUCATIONAL + COMMUNITY COACHING

  • Group Support: Join regular group calls for deeper insights and collective progress.

  • Shared Journey: Benefit from community interactions while working towards your goals.

PRIVATE COACHING:

  • Comprehensive Experience: Enjoy the course, participate in the community, and get personalized, one-on-one sessions with me.

  • Tailored Guidance: Address your unique needs in private coaching sessions.

let’s GET DOWN TO BRASS TACKS

What’s Included in Your Program?

SELF-STUDY

  • Flexible Learning: Perfect for a busy life. Learn at your own pace, on your own schedule.

  • Total Control: You decide when and how to engage with the lessons.

EDUCATIONAL + COMMUNITY COACHING

  • Group Support: Join regular group calls for deeper insights and collective progress.

  • Shared Journey: Benefit from community interactions while working towards your goals.

PRIVATE COACHING:

  • Comprehensive Experience: Enjoy the course, participate in the community, and get personalized, one-on-one sessions with me.

  • Tailored Guidance: Address your unique needs in private coaching sessions.

Lets dive in deeper...

Here are the Details...

Module 1

Discover what's getting in your way with sex.

The scientific explanation & how to overcome it using the NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy™ method.

Walk Away With:

  • Identify your “why” – why do you REALLY have sex? Getting real about what’s getting in your way will unlock SO MUCH

  • Nervous System Education – foundational knowledge for life change

  • Why we don’t focus on “pleasure” in this course & how it sets you up for success

  • Creating change – how to make it easy to stick to your growth

Walk Away With:

  • Sexual Response System – learning why you “just don’t get aroused”

  • Identifying your authentic desire – uncovering how you want to feel during sex (if you didn’t have pressure)

  • Thinking about Sex – how to change your thought patterns so you can change the way you think (and feel) about sex

MODULE 2

How to feel more positively toward sex.

Using researched-based techniques to rewire your brain & body for ease & pleasure around sex.

MODULE 3

Unlock how to think of yourself as a sexual person.

Rewriting sexual narratives that align with your values and comfort (instead of shame & pressure).

Walk Away With:

  • Cultural Messaging – understanding where we learned about sex and how deep those messages go

  • Sexual Myth Busting – how “sexual truths” cause shame & how to break free

  • Releasing Sexual Shame – it’s an inside job, so we create awareness and new ways to take charge of our sexual stories

Walk Away With:

  • Arousal Architecture© – an assessment that tells you exactly what you need to get turned on (it’s surprisingly different than you’d expect)

  • Sacred Experiences Hierarchy™ – a technique designed to integrate physical intimacy & sexual experiences into your life more easily

  • Mindfulness Exercises – exclusive practices that you’ll actually be able to do (and feel excited about)

MODULE 4

Practical ways to actually do “the sex”.

Effective, science-based intimacy techniques that are specifically tailored to people who’ve avoided sex (so you don’t feel like you’re going from zero to 60).

MODULE 5

How to communicate better about sex with partners.

Practical techniques, formulas, and methods to improve communication so you feel more empowered.

Walk Away With:

  • Addressing the elephant in the bedroom – how to initiate sex more comfortably

  • Discussing touchy topics – scripts for when you’re feeling tense about communicating sexual needs & desires

  • Effective feedback – how to get more of what you want & lovingly express what’s not working for you

Walk Away With:

  • Making a plan to set you up for a continued (sex) life of success

  • How to “schedule intimacy” without it feeling clinical or “routine”

  • Additional support and where to get it beyond the program

MODULE 6

Now what? Success beyond the program.

How to keep seeing progress using these tools and more. 

Here are the Details...

Module 1

Discover what's getting in your way with sex.

The scientific explanation & how to overcome it using NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy™ method.

Walk Away With:

  • Identify your “why” – why do you REALLY have sex? Getting real about what’s getting in your way will unlock SO MUCH

  • Nervous System Education – foundational knowledge for life change

  • Why we don’t focus on “pleasure” in this course & how it sets you up for success

  • Creating change – how to make it easy to stick to your growth

MODULE 2

How to feel more positively toward sex.

Using researched-based techniques to rewire your brain & body for ease & pleasure around sex.

Walk Away With:

  • Sexual Response System – learning why you “just don’t get aroused”

  • Identifying your authentic desire – uncovering how you want to feel during sex (if you didn’t have pressure)

  • Thinking about Sex – how to change your thought patterns so you can change the way you think (and feel) about sex

MODULE 3

Unlock how to think of yourself as a sexual person.

Rewriting sexual narratives that align with your values and comfort (instead of shame & pressure).

Walk Away With:

  • Cultural Messaging – understanding where we learned about sex and how deep those messages go

  • Sexual Myth Busting – how “sexual truths” cause shame & how to break free

  • Releasing Sexual Shame – it’s an inside job, so we create awareness and new ways to take charge of our sexual stories

MODULE 4

Practical ways to actually do “the sex”.

Effective, science-based intimacy techniques that are specifically tailored to people who’ve avoided sex (so you don’t feel like you’re going from zero to 60).

Walk Away With:

  • Arousal Architecture© – an assessment that tells you exactly what you need to get turned on (it’s surprisingly different than you’d expect)

  • Sacred Experiences Hierarchy™ – a technique designed to integrate physical intimacy & sexual experiences into your life more easily

  • Mindfulness Exercises – exclusive practices that you’ll actually be able to do (and feel excited about)

MODULE 5

How to communicate better about sex with partners.

Practical techniques, formulas, and methods to improve communication so you feel more empowered.

Walk Away With:

  • Addressing the elephant in the bedroom – how to initiate sex more comfortably

  • Discussing touchy topics – scripts for when you’re feeling tense about communicating sexual needs & desires

  • Effective feedback – how to get more of what you want & lovingly express what’s not working for you

MODULE 6

Now what? Success beyond the program.

How to keep seeing progress using these tools and more. 

Walk Away With:

  • Making a plan to set you up for a continued (sex) life of success

  • How to “schedule intimacy” without it feeling clinical or “routine”

  • Additional support and where to get it beyond the program

When you finally stop worrying about sex...

IMAGINE HOW YOUR LIFE CHANGES EVEN BEYOND THE BEDROOM

LIKE...

Feeling more comfortable in your body

AND...

The confidence of knowing you’ve tackled one of the most difficult “secrets” of your life

without...

Spending years in traditional therapy or feeling “broken”

the value doesn't stop there, you'll also get...

These Exclusive Bonuses

Made for you

Sensual & Sexual Mindfulness Bundle

#1

This collection of recorded audios were expertly designed for people who've avoided sex and benefit from guided mindfulness without the "woo-woo". Science-informed topics and exercises to soothe your nervous system, gently stimulate sexual response, and overcome sexual avoidance.

Because you're so valued

Priority Access & Special Pricing

#2

Now that you can engage with sex without pulling away, you want an even better sex life. I have programs for deepening your growth. And if you've uncovered something bigger causing your avoidance (like trauma, toxic relationship patterns, or attachment wounds), you'll get premium access to special pricing and programs to continue to transform your life.

the value doesn't stop there, you'll also get...

These Exclusive Bonuses

#1

Even more Expert 1:1 time

Private Integration Session w/ Kayna

When you invest in a program like this, I know you want results beyond completion. In your bonus private session with me, we'll address any obstacles you might have in the future so you have a game plan on how to handle it, with confidence.

#1

Made for you

Sensual & Sexual Mindfulness Bundle

This collection of recorded audios were expertly designed for people who've avoided sex and benefit from guided mindfulness without the "woo-woo". Science-informed topics and exercises to soothe your nervous system, gently stimulate sexual response, and overcome sexual avoidance.

#2

Because you're so valued

Priority Access & Special Pricing

Now that you can engage with sex without pulling away, you want an even better sex life. I have programs for deepening your growth. And if you've uncovered something bigger causing your avoidance (like trauma, toxic relationship patterns, or attachment wounds), you'll get premium access to special pricing and programs to continue to transform your life.

stop avoiding sex & Start...

"Wanting to Want"

A High-Quality Personalized Coaching Program Valued at $5,494.00

Self-Study

$100

Monthly

  • Wanting to Want Course (includes videos, guided audios + other resources)

  • Easy-to-use handouts + workbooks with instructional videos

  • Regular Group Calls

  • 1 Private Coaching Session per month

  • Direct Messaging Coaching

Educational + Community Coaching

$250

Monthly

  • Wanting to Want Course (includes videos, guided audios + other resources)

  • Easy-to-use handouts + workbooks with instructional videos

  • Regular Group Calls

  • 1 Private Coaching Session per month

  • Direct Messaging Coaching

Private Coaching

$850

Monthly

  • Wanting to Want Course (includes videos, guided audios + other resources)

  • Easy-to-use handouts + workbooks with instructional videos

  • Regular Group Calls

  • 1 Private Coaching

  • Direct Messaging Coaching

INCLUDED

3 Private Coaching Sessions

$1,800.00

LIVE GROUP CALLS + Q&A

$1,200.00

DIRECT MESSAGING ACCESS w/ Kayna

$900.00

WEEKLY ACCOUNTABILITY SUPPORT

$800.00

Self-paced course & resources

$297.00

Bonus: Integration Session

$400.00

BONUS: Sensual & Sexual mindfulness bundle

$97.00

VALUED AT = $5,494.00

Regular Price = $3,600.00

First 15 to sign up = $3300

Lifting the burden of

sexual avoidance is so freeing

Finally Feeling "Normal"

You don’t have to feel like an outsider when your friends are talking about their recent sexcapades. You won’t cringe during a sex scene in a movie.

Moving your life forward

You don’t put off dates because you’re worried about “the sex talk.” And you don’t pull away when your partner touches you in that way when you know sex is on their mind.

Embracing sex confidently

You’re able to think about your sex life in a positive way. Say goodbye to feeling pressure, disappointment, or guilt.

Finally Feeling "Normal"

You don’t have to feel like an outsider when your friends are talking about their recent sexcapades. You won’t cringe during a sex scene in a movie.

Moving your life forward

You don’t put off dates because you’re worried about “the sex talk.” And you don’t pull away when your partner touches you in that way when you know sex is on their mind.

Embracing sex confidently

You’re able to think about your sex life in a positive way. Say goodbye to feeling pressure, disappointment, or guilt.

having a connected & Easy

Having a connected & Easy

sex life is possible for you…

sex life is possible for you.

  • Without spending tens of thousands of dollars on individual specialist treatment.

  • Without fights that go around in circles and never produce solutions.

  • Without having to spend years wasting time in weekly sessions.

Make cringy bedroom moments a thing of the past...

Make cringy bedroom moments a thing of the past...

w.c. WAS TRANSFORMED...

“The changes I've experienced over these months are sustainable & will last a lifetime.”

...YOU CAN BE, TOO

BUT You REALLY SHOULDN’T WAIT

Sex is a reward system

Sex isn't a "drive." It's a reward system.

The more pleasant of an experience it is (physically or emotionally) the more you'll move toward sex.

The more unpleasant it is, the more you'll move away from it.

It's that simple.

The longer you have unpleasant emotions or sensations or experiences with sex, the harder it will be to find "neutral" (and then pleasure) with ease.

YOUR INVESTMENT IS PROTECTED

I Never Want Anyone to Feel Dissatisfied.

My whole goal in life is for people to feel satisfied IN THEIR BONES.

You’re investing hard-earned money, precious time, and energy with me. I want you to walk away knowing that your investment made an impact on your life.

You’re not just some number to me. If you work through the content of the program, engage in the exercises, attend our sessions, and you don’t feel like you got your money’s worth… reach out to me and I’ll make it right with more personalized support or a refund.

What's the NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching™ Method?

It’s a new & powerful system that retrains your brain to feel better about sex (instead of scared, anxious, or disappointed).

Rooted in neuroscience & sexual health research, it combines trauma-informed somatic coaching – changing the way people resolve sexual challenges.

Mindset

Learn to build healthier belief systems & powerful skills for lasting change on a cellular level.

Identify Barriers

Explore obstacles & set attainable goals that meet you where you’re at.

Nervous System Recalibration

Make your mind-body connection work for you, instead of against you.

Re-write Sexual Narratives

Feel empowered to change the way you view your sexual & sensual story.

Sustainable Interventions

Use interventions that uproot the old pathways & create easier ways to engage in sex & intimacy.

What's the NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching™ Method?

It’s a new & powerful system that retrains your brain to feel better about sex (instead of scared, anxious, or disappointed).

Rooted in neuroscience & sexual health research, it combines trauma-informed somatic coaching – changing the way people resolve sexual challenges.

Mindset

Learn to build healthier belief systems & powerful skills for lasting change on a cellular level.

Identify Barriers

Explore obstacles & set attainable goals that meet you where you’re at.

Nervous System Recalibration

Make your mind-body connection work for you, instead of against you.

Re-write Sexual Narratives

Feel empowered to change the way you view your sexual & sensual story.

Sustainable Interventions

Use interventions that uproot the old pathways & create easier ways to engage in sex & intimacy.

what would change in your life if you transformed sex?

Real People + Real Results

"My wife and I saw Kayna for quite some time and she's helped us immeasurably...

...The biggest thing for us was that Kayna helped us break down walls and really helped get us through some hurdles. I can't imagine how different things would have been for my wife and me if we hadn't seen Kayna."

- J.L. & R.L.

"When I first started taking the course, I would hear you talk about how this course changes your life overall…

...that you could have passion in all areas of your life. I doubted it and even thought it was cheesy. But now I actually see what you mean. It applies to everything I do…. I didn’t realize that I could have so much positive change in my work, and with my friends too, not just my sex life."

- A.S.

what would change
if you transformed sex?

Real People +
Real Results

"My wife and I saw Kayna for quite some time and she's helped us immeasurably...

...The biggest thing for us was that Kayna helped us break down walls and really helped get us through some hurdles. I can't imagine how different things would have been for my wife and me if we hadn't seen Kayna."

- J.L. & R.L.

"When I first started taking the course, I would hear you talk about how this course changes your life overall…

...that you could have passion in all areas of your life. I doubted it and even thought it was cheesy. But now I actually see what you mean. It applies to everything I do…. I didn’t realize that I could have so much positive change in my work, and with my friends too, not just my sex life."

- A.S.

they've been where you are now…

real clients i've helped

transform their sex lives.

Feeling awkward and clunky J.M. (age 37) hated initiating sex. She didn’t know how to express what she wanted (let alone even KNOW what she wanted). And now, J.M. feels comfortable and at ease around sex and intimacy (including saying “no” without guilt).

When frustrating conversations about sex were happening weekly, T.R. (age 30) & B.R. (age 28) knew they needed help. T.R. didn’t feel desired and B.R. didn’t know why she didn’t want sex even though she loved him dearly. They both hated having obligatory sex. Now, they can connect in ways that feel satisfying and easy (even when it doesn’t lead to penetration).

Usually on the 3rd date, D.B. (age 33) let their dating conversations "fizzle out" (before the “sex talk” could happen). They felt so ashamed of their sexual anxieties and let it hijack their dating experience. Now, D.B. feels confident with their communication skills and relationship techniques. They’re excited that these tools will last a lifetime (in and out of the bedroom).

Limited space for this special launch

"Wanting to Want"

A High-Quality Personalized Coaching Program Valued at

$5,494.00

INCLUDED

3 Private Coaching Sessions

$1,800.00

LIVE GROUP CALLS + Q&A

$1,200.00

DIRECT MESSAGING ACCESS

$900.00

WEEKLY ACCOUNTABILITY SUPPORT

$800.00

Self-paced course & resources

$297.00

BONUS: Integration Session

$400.00

BONUS: Sensual & Sexual mindfulness BUNDLE

$97.00

VALUED AT = $5,494.00

Regular Price = $3,600.00

First 15 to sign up = $3300

in case you've been wondering...

in case you've been wondering...

Frequently Asked Questions.

How much time commitment will this take?

We've specially crafted this course with busy people in mind. We'll have a "fast track" option – the basics you need to implement change (expect less than an hour each week).

You'll also have access to the full course with supplemental videos for any exercises, workbooks, or interventions that you want to include in your program. This is for the people who really want intensive work and are ready to commit 2-3 hours per week, but let's be real, sometimes all you have is less than an hour.

You'll see results with both options, no matter what.

Is this therapy?

No, I actually think that this is a much better option for many people. That's because you get the benefit of learning from experts with over a decade of licensed mental health knowledge & sex therapy experience. All for less than the cost of traditional psychotherapy investment!

This program is exclusively designed for people who don't want the energetic & financial burden of working with a Sex Therapist, but know they need expert guidance to stop their cycle of avoiding sex.

It can also be supplemental to psychotherapy work you're doing with a psychotherapist, especially if they don't specialize in sexual challenges.

It's also helpful for people who want to reserve psychotherapy time for the deeper processing but need focused expert care on overcoming sexual avoidance.

Do I have access to the content and program portal forever?

It's a monthly membership that you can cancel at any time. You have access to the content while you are enrolled.

Is this for couples, unpartnered people, and people of any gender?

Yes! It's for anyone and everyone who's avoided sex and wants to learn how to Want It again.

Is the coaching private or in a group?

It depends on the option you choose! For the group option, you'll have access to regular group calls (that you can attend anonymously if you want). For private coaching, you'll receive private coaching sessions, access to the group calls, and direct messaging coaching to support you in between sessions.

Will there be live calls? If so, will there be recordings if I can't make it live?

To respect the privacy of our clients we don't record the group calls.

Will this support me in healing from sexual trauma?

Although this program is trauma-informed this is not a trauma-specific container. You get the education from Certified Trauma Therapists, but we process trauma in this program.

If you feel any trauma triggers or responses coming up for you, I encourage you to bring them to the community with awareness.

I also recognize the limitations of this program. If you need deeper support, you can access consultation calls (without charge) with our Trauma Therapist to determine if you could work with them. (NOTE: it will not be a “trauma processing session,” only a “meet & greet.”)

How does the content differ from your other programs like Overcoming Painful Sex?

This program is complementary to other ways I work with clients. Almost ALL my sex therapy and coaching clients needed the foundational guidance and information in Wanting to Want.

My hope is that this program will be exactly what you need to heal their relationship to sex and desire. If you still need more help and beyond the program, you've already built the fundamental understanding and skills you'll need to continue to grow.

Although the themes and some of the information is the same (after all, everything I do is research-based and science informed!), this program structures the information in a new and powerful way. Plus there’s a lot more resources and information not included in other programs of mine.

Can FSA / HSA pay for this?

While I don't know exactly what individual policies or companies allow, many people find they're able to pay for coaching or psychoeducation with their FSA or HSA accounts. All you do is use your card to pay for it in the order form as you would a credit or debit card.

If your company needs an itemized receipt, email me to request it, and I will provide one that lists this expense as "coaching/psychoeducation for a medical-based condition." Please note: I will NOT include any CP, ICD-10, or any other diagnostic codes since this is not psychotherapy.

Please confirm with your carrier or company in advance. By purchasing, you understand that they might not allow this, and you will not hold me responsible for their decision or reimbursement amount. I will also not provide refunds.

You wanT Better Sex... you just don’t know where to start.

Most importantly, you want to save your sex life

There are solutions that can save you time, money & heartache.

THE TIME IS NOW.

Enroll today below.

Who is this program NOT for?

  • If you’re looking for a program that will help you have mind-blowing sex.


    This program solves ONE problem: AVOIDING SEX. Once you can do that, pleasure is possible. I found it was easier to help clients focus on one thing at a time. Then you can take advantage of my pleasure programs.

  • If you expect that simply buying this program will fix your sexual solutions.


    You have to put in the work. BUT with my research-based techniques designed for busy (and tired) lives, I'm confident you'll get solutions that work for you.

    One way I do this is by creating your “MVP” (a Minimum Viable Path) that will fit even the tightest schedules. It’s the path of the program that will still get you results even if you have less than an hour a week. And you’ll still have access to all the other resources, too!

  • If you have active trauma triggers or unresolved sexual trauma.


    I recommend getting that processed before joining. Our skillful Trauma Sex Therapists can help with that. If you go that route, you'll get access to this course as a private client anyway.

Who is this program NOT for?

  • If you’re looking for a program that will help you have mind-blowing sex.


    This program solves ONE problem: AVOIDING SEX. Once you can do that, pleasure is possible. I found it was easier to help clients focus on one thing at a time. Then you can take advantage of my pleasure programs.

  • If you expect that simply buying this program will fix your sexual solutions.


    You have to put in the work. BUT with my research-based techniques designed for busy (and tired) lives, I'm confident you'll get solutions that work for you.

    One way I do this is by creating your “MVP” (a Minimum Viable Path) that will fit even the tightest schedules. It’s the path of the program that will still get you results even if you have less than an hour a week. And you’ll still have access to all the other resources, too!

  • If you have active trauma triggers or unresolved sexual trauma.


    I recommend getting that processed before joining. Our skillful Trauma Sex Therapists can help with that. If you go that route, you'll get access to this course as a private client anyway.

Who is "Wanting to Want" For?

  • If you feel put off by “BEST SEX OF YOUR LIFE” programs.


    I get it. Tapping into your "sexual power or god/goddess” is a concept waaaay too far out there when you want to stop avoiding sex. That’s like going from zero to 60. You need a program that can help you make significant changes gradually and in ways that feel authentic to you.

  • Partnered and un-partnered folks alike.


    You don’t need to be in a relationship or actively seeking sex to put this program to good use. I created this program with that in mind, no matter your relationship status.

  • If you’re willing to take responsibility for your sex life (and ready to release guilt & shame).


    I 1000% believe that you learned about your sexuality in a broken system. YOU are not broken. Get ready for a paradigm shift around your experience of sexuality. Removing negative self-talk and identifying where you have control over your sex life is just the beginning.

    And I promise, it’s not as hard as you think, I will make it simple and be there every step of the way.

Who is the program for?

  • If you feel put-off by “BEST SEX OF YOUR LIFE” programs.


    I get it. Tapping into your "sexual power or goddess” is a concept waaaay too far out there when you want to stop avoiding sex. That’s like going from zero to 60. You need a program that can help you make significant changes gradually, and in ways that feel authentic to you.

  • Partnered and Un-partnered folks alike.


    You don’t need to be in a relationship or actively seeking sex to put this program to good use. I created this program with that in mind, no matter your relationship status.

  • If you’re willing to take responsibility for your sex life (and ready to release guilt & shame).


    I 1000% believe that you learned about your sexuality in a broken system. YOU are not broken. Get ready for a paradigm shift around your experience of sexuality. Removing negative self-talk and identifying where you have control over your sex life is just the beginning.

    And I promise, it’s not as hard as you think, I will make it simple and be there every step of the way.

Deep down, you want to connect.

But anxiety is holding you back.

Deep down, you want to connect.

But anxiety is holding you back.

HOW LONG

can you stand to spend another night feeling lonely next to your partner?

HOW LONG...

can you stand to spend another night feeling lonely next to your partner?

oR

pretending like everything’s ok?

or...

pretending like everything’s ok?

it's time

to take control over your sex life.

it's time...

to take control over your sex life.

It's time to say YES to yourself.

It's time to say YES to yourself.

No more wasting time with "solutions" that don't work.

No more wasting time with "solutions" that don't work.

8 weeks from now, you could be enjoying the confidence of deep connection without pressure or disappointment.

Your future satisfying sex life is thanking you already!

8 weeks from now, you could be enjoying the confidence of deep connection without pressure or disappointment.

Your future satisfying sex life is thanking you already!

"Wanting to Want"

A 8 Week Personalized
Coaching Program
Valued at $5,494.00

INCLUDED

3 Private Coaching Sessions

$1,800.00

LIVE GROUP CALLS + Q&A

$1,200.00

DIRECT MESSAGING ACCESS

$900.00

WEEKLY ACCOUNTABILITY SUPPORT

$800.00

Self-paced course & resources

$297.00

BONUS: Integration Session

$400.00

BONUS: Sensual & Sexual mindfulness BUNDLE

$97.00

VALUED AT = $5,494.00

Regular Price = $3,600.00

First 15 to sign up = $3300

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"Wanting to Want"

A High-Quality Personalized Coaching Program Valued at $5,494.00

Self-Study

$100

Monthly

  • Wanting to Want Course (includes videos, guided audios + other resources)

  • Easy-to-use handouts + workbooks with instructional videos

  • Regular Group Calls

  • 1 Private Coaching Session per month

  • Direct Messaging Coaching

Educational + Community Coaching

$250

Monthly

  • Wanting to Want Course (includes videos, guided audios + other resources)

  • Easy-to-use handouts + workbooks with instructional videos

  • Regular Group Calls

  • 1 Private Coaching Session per month

  • Direct Messaging Coaching

Private Coaching

$850

Monthly

  • Wanting to Want Course (includes videos, guided audios + other resources)

  • Easy-to-use handouts + workbooks with instructional videos

  • Regular Group Calls

  • 1 Private Coaching

  • Direct Messaging Coaching

No more settling for anxious sex.
You can finally want to want it.

Enroll today.

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