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If you’Re dealing with sexual pain, anxiety or guilt…

What would it feel like to stop avoiding sex and start wanting it?

…without the time & expense of ineffective Sex Therapy or Coaching.

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If you’ve dealing with sexual pain, anxiety or guilt…

What would it feel like to stop avoiding sex and start wanting it?

…without the time & expense of ineffective Sex Therapy or Coaching.

How often do you squirm inside

when you even think about sex?

You tell yourself, “It’s been too long, I better do it” or “If I don’t, my partner will leave me…” and end up having sex anyway.

Or you’re avoiding sex altogether.

And when your partner kisses you, instead of melting in, you cringe. 

It’s so uncomfortable hearing about friends’ sex lives when yours feels like a “dirty secret.”

You feel like an outsider.

You hate that you feel “broken.”

NEWS FLASH: It’s not you that’s broken. It’s the system – poor sexual health education & a sex-negative culture has taught you to link sex with fear or shame.

Sex shouldn’t feel like an obligation or a chore.

If it does, you owe yourself the chance to heal.

So where do you turn?

How do you start wanting sex
after avoiding it for so long?

Maybe...

What you’ve tried in the past hasn’t worked.

1.

You've tried it on your own. You've read books, taken intimacy workshops, & had endless conversations about it. It’s left you feeling stuck in the same cycle without a road map out.

2.

You've tried talking to friends, but they don't truly understand. It’s a lonely path – one that’s hijacked by a guilt-shame spiral. So you avoid it all together.

3.

You've even tried working with Doctors or Couple's Therapists. Their dismissive advice – "Have you tried lube? A new sex toy? Try relaxing more” – makes you feel like it’s your fault. You've paid thousands (even tens of thousands) a year with nothing but "treatment plans" you don't have time to do.

How often do you squirm inside

when you even think about sex?

You tell yourself, “It’s been too long, I better do it” or “If I don’t, my partner will leave me…” and end up having sex anyway.

Or you’re avoiding sex altogether.

And when your partner kisses you, instead of melting in, you cringe. 

It’s so uncomfortable hearing about friends’ sex lives when yours feels like a “dirty secret.”

You feel like an outsider.

You hate that you feel “broken.”

NEWS FLASH: It’s not you that’s broken. It’s the system – poor sexual health education & a sex-negative culture has taught you to link sex with fear or shame.

Sex shouldn’t feel like an obligation or a chore.

If it does, you owe yourself the chance to heal.

So where do you turn?

How do you start wanting sex
after avoiding it for so long?

Maybe...

What you’ve tried in the past hasn’t worked.

You've tried it on your own.

You've read books, taken intimacy workshops, & had endless conversations about it. It’s left you feeling stuck in the same cycle without a road map out.

You've tried talking to friends.

But they don't truly understand. It’s a lonely path – one that’s hijacked by a guilt-shame spiral. So you avoid it all together.

You've even tried working with Doctors or Couple's Therapists.

Their dismissive advice – "Have you tried lube? A new sex toy? Try relaxing more” – makes you feel like it’s your fault. You've paid thousands (even tens of thousands) a year with nothing but "treatment plans" you forget to do.

I KNOW HOW PAINFUL AND FRUSTRATING IT CAN BE

Because I’ve been where you are now.

I had a fear-based sex education and when I broke free from that brainwashing, sex was liberating.

But my happiness was cut short when I started experiencing pain during intercourse... leading to a desire drier than the Sahara Desert. I stopped connecting & started avoiding sex altogether.

I didn’t know what to do… and there was no information out there to help.

I KNOW HOW PAINFUL AND FRUSTRATING IT CAN BE

Because I’ve been where you are now.

I had a fear-based sex education and when I broke free from that brainwashing, sex was liberating.

But my happiness was cut short when I started experiencing pain during intercourse... leading to a desire drier than the Sahara Desert. I stop connecting & started avoiding sex altogether.

I didn’t know what to do… and there was no information out there to help.

I SPENT A DECADE OF MY LIFE looking for an answer...

I went to doctor after doctor, but kept getting blown off with the same condescending reply: “It’s all in your head.” 

Not to mention the layer of shame that I was a Marriage & Family Therapist and SEX THERAPIST! It felt like my “dirty secret.”

And as time went on, I started to feel like there was something seriously wrong with me. 

It annihilated my self-esteem. I tolerated toxic relationships because I didn’t think I could do any better.

SPENT A DECADE OF MY LIFE

looking for an answer.

I went to doctor after doctor, but kept getting blown off with the same condescending advice: “It’s all in your head.” 

Not to mention the layer of shame that I was a Marriage & Family Therapist and SEX THERAPIST! It felt like my “dirty secret.”

And as time went on, I started to feel like there was something seriously wrong with me. 

It annihilated my self-esteem. I tolerated toxic relationships because I didn’t think I could do any better.

But I wasn't broken.

And neither are you.

I realized that I had to create the solution to reclaiming sexuality. I drew from other areas of health, psychology and trauma-informed care. I devoured clinical research to find the most effective solutions to similar issues.  Finally, I built the solution & process that transformed my life.

Today, I initiate sex more easily, connect deeper with my partner, and communicate without feeling like a disappointment. I have sex because I want to, not out of guilt or obligation

I’ve been where you are now. And I came out the other side to a life filled with satisfying sex & easy connection.

I’m here to help you get there, too.

But I wasn't broken.

And neither are you.

I realized that I had to create the solution to reclaiming sexuality. I drew from other areas of health, psychology and trauma-informed care. I devoured clinical research to find the most effective solutions to similar issues.  Finally, I built the solution & process that transformed my life.

Today, I initiate sex more easily, connect deeper with my partner, and communicate without feeling like a disappointment. I have sex because I want to, not out of guilt or obligation

I’ve been where you are now. And I came out the other side to a life filled with satisfying sex & easy connection.

I’m here to help you get there, too.

Imagine what it would feel like

to want sex instead of avoiding it...

to want sex

instead of avoiding it...

How would your life be different if

sex was satisfying and comfortable?

If you felt excited to connect and be intimate?

And guilt-free saying NO when you aren’t feeling it?

No matter how long you’ve struggled with sexual pain, anxiety, or avoidance.

Imagine going on a date without stressing about the possibility of sex later.

Or initiating sex with your partner because you’re actually in the mood—and you know it will feel good.

And feeling empowered to say what you want (even if it’s not sex).

HOW WILL YOUR LIFE BE DIFFERENT WHEN

you can enjoy a satisfying sex life without guilt, anxiety, or Disappointment?

You’ve been struggling long enough.

You know you need to see a Specialist who’s trained in these specific issues. But finding someone you can trust who truly understands is a challenge. 

Fitting weekly appointments into your already packed schedule feels impossible.

And you know it could take months (or years!) of “traditional treatment” before you finally have the results you’re working toward. 

That’s why you need NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching™ 

So you can unlock the real reasons you avoid sex.

It’s time to build the amazing sex life you deserve… without the expense and time of traditional Sex Therapy.

You’ve been struggling long enough.

You know you need to see a Specialist who’s trained in these specific issues. But finding someone you can trust who truly understands is a challenge. 

Fitting weekly appointments into your already packed schedule feels impossible.

And you know it could take months (or years!) of “traditional treatment” before you finally have the results you’re working toward. 

That’s why you need NeuroSomatic Sex & Intimacy Coaching™ 

So you can unlock the real reasons you avoid sex.

It’s time to build the amazing sex life you deserve… without the expense and time of traditional Sex Therapy.

“I experienced pretty immediate relief, but it just kept getting better.”

I used to feel like sex was an uncomfortable duty. But it became something I looked forward to, especially knowing it wouldn't hurt or we wouldn't need to make a ton of adjustments that take you out of the enjoyment."

- H.J.

“I experienced pretty immediate relief, but it just kept getting better.”

I used to feel like sex was an uncomfortable duty. But it became something I looked forward to, especially knowing it wouldn't hurt or we wouldn't need to make a ton of adjustments that take you out of the enjoyment."

- H.J.

SOUNDS AMAZING, RIGHT?

Introducing...

Wanting to Want

A Hybrid Coaching Program to Overcome Sexual Avoidance & Unlock a Satisfying Sex Life

SOUNDS AMAZING, RIGHT?

Introducing...

"Wanting to Want"

An 8 Week Hybrid Coaching Program to Overcome Sexual Avoidance & Unlock a Satisfying Sex Life